The post about nothing (worked for a TV show)

Greetings and Salutations Faithful Stapleton Blog Readers!

I hope this post finds you and yours doing well.  I have not done a proper update in a while so here’s a little something to get everyone up to date.

As some of you may know this Bail Out and government intervention in our Banking systems has honked me off quite a bit.  I am not over it but this is all you will hear about it in this post. There really has not been too much going on lately besides work.

Jess is continuing her student teaching at Cabell Midland in the Autism room to rave reviews.  Not only does she have a heart for this but she is outstanding at it!  I am really proud of her for this, she does something daily that I don’t think that I could.  Or as I like to say it she spends her days helping those who can not help themselves.  Her thesis process continues to move along.  This is a two semester process and has been stressing her out; she has never done this type of research.  The girl just needs to realize that she is a walking brain box and she will do well at whatever she puts her mind towards.

That being said; at this point after 9 years of marriage I have just decided she does not want to learn how to cook.  She can do most everything else, but I digress.  We are continuing to see her pain management doctor and she is still receiving therapy twice a week.  Overall she is doing pretty well considering.  It is just hard because at this point her recovery is no longer advancing by feet we are down to very slow moving inches.  It may be two years before we figure out what normal will be for her.  Her daily activities are not being affected to badly but I think most of that is because she has learned to adjust for things.

She has been off of work since January 14th so needless to say things are tight but we are managing.  We have been blessed and the Lord has provided for us during this time, there is just no other way to put it.  On the legal front I am sure it will be forever before any kind of claim is finalized.  AVIS is self insured so they are not in a hurry to do anything.  It’s nice to know that you can be at no fault in an accident, have you life stopped, your life savings drained, and left to hang out in the wind for 9 months with little or no advancement towards a resolution.

One the Jake front things have just been busy but what else is new.  My marathon travel days seem to be over for the next little bit.  I think I still might have 4 more weeks on the road left for the year but that is dependent on some projects.  Since the last post I spent a week on day trips and a week in Beckley.  I also took a weeks vacation and finished the house. I thought that since we will be here for 2 years on October 30th I was running out of excuses for primer colored doors.

Like all projects it took quite a bit longer than anticipated to finish.  The 10 doors alone took 60 coats of paint.  I patched my first hole in drywall that took a 10 inch knife to float.  (For those of you that understand that you know it was cool.)  My 45 item punch list on the house that I made about 18 months ago was completed as well.  I have since found a couple of touch up spots I need to handle this weekend and I need to finish a few amenities in the bathroom downstairs.  But it is my plan to use the shower downstairs for the first time today.   (Someone has to see if it is going to leak.)  There will be a movie released at sometime in the future on the website for your consumption.  I have a lot of ideas to make the movie fun so it may take a little bit of time.

We are also working on reconfiguring the house a little.  I am a little cramped at home for a home office so Jess was kind enough to move her desk out to a corner in the living room.  I am still going back and forth on either a 2 desk system for the office one for work and one for personal use.  Or some kind of monster L shaped desk that will meet both needs.  Either way Jess had to move out of the office to make it happen.  Overall she was pretty accommodating of this.  My dream would be to have a home office one day that could be it’s own room but the house is not big enough to do this in an aesthetically pleasing way.

Well I think that is about it for now.  There may be some election rants coming on the blog in the coming weeks but you can ignore them if you would like.  I would just like to ask that not matter who you vote for that you exercise you civic duty to vote this year.

That’s the news and I am outta here!

Important housing announcement!

It is my pleasure to announce that as of 03:00 hours EST (07:00 Zulu) on 19th October 2008 that the Stapleton Mansion Remodel Phase 1 is complete!  After a mere 26 months of work, planning, and putting things off phase one is done.  Phase 1 is defined as the original vision that we had for the house when it was purchased it in August of 2006. 

I would liked to take this time to thank the cast of thousands that assisted on the project.

All in all I could have found a better way to spend my vacation but I do have some joy in that nothing in the house is the color of primer anymore.  I am currently working on a movie about the remodel and will post it later.

Thank you for your attention and God Bless. 

Long week on the road

Well tonight I ate at a fine establishment in Wooster, OH.

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I am considering filing suit for copyright infringement.

This weeks project started out with me driving up on Sunday night to do 6 days worth of work in 4.  However we encountered a few issues so it is taking a little bit longer than planned.  So I am going back to the bank for about a 1/2 day on Friday then heading home.

I looking forward to seeing Jess, Petey, & Phoebe.  Tonight marks my 63rd night in a hotel this year and needless to say I am ready to go home.  When you divide that out by working days I have been gone for 13 weeks this year.  Along with Jess being in the wreck and everything else going on it has been a strain on all levels.

Due to banking regulations I have to take off 5 consecutive days at least once a year and I am running out of time.  I was going to try to save some vacation when I could actually go on a trip and have some fun but it does not appear that will happen this year.  So I will probably just end up taking off a week to work on the house; there is still plenty to do there.

That’s about it for me, I am off to bed good night all.

An engagement, new family, and no Dr. Evil Chair

Greetings and Salutations Faithful Stapleton Blog Readers!

Well a lot has happened since my last lengthy update

Here we go with another excursion into blog excellence (copyright Rush Limbaugh)

On August 23rd my brother from another mother Ricky became engaged to his girlfriend Megan Kitts.  We are very happy for them and Jess & I are honored to have been asked to participate in the wedding.  They are currently planning a July 2009 wedding at an undisclosed secure location.

It is not too often that I feel old when talking about technology, but in the same sentence Megan said “we’re engaged” and “can we change out status on Facebook now?” I have of course heard of Facebook but was not a member so I thought I would check it out.  Jess and I signed up for Facebook accounts and found out we had to get remarried online.  A little strange to say the least.  Currently she has more friends than me but that could just be because people bug me anymore.  Facebook has been pretty fun and I have reconnected with a few people.  The really neat thing is everything from my blog and friendfeed automatically update on Facebook so I still only have to do updates in one place.  In a further attempt to prove that she is the more popular spouse Jess joined MySpace as well.

On September 3rd Jess had her first day of school.  She began her practicum in the Autism room at Cabell Midland High School.  Jess is really enjoying working with the students and learning this facet the Autism field.  Up to this time she has been working on the administrative end of things so the daily interaction is new for her.  She is doing great and enjoying her time in the classroom.  All in all she is managing pretty well with all the new activity and mobility.  She is still under treatment for the wreck but she is doing very well.  I am very proud of her, for all the pain she has been in for the last 41 weeks she is still a trooper.  Trying hard everyday to get back to doing what she wants to do.

On September 9th we had a new second cousin appear in the world.  My cousin Carrie and her husband Jeremy welcomed their son Jayse Casto into the world.  He weighed 7 lbs and 5 ozs and was 21.5 inches long.  Although I have to assume he has grown a little bit since then.  Mom & Baby did well, just a little infection and blood pressure things to deal with.  I will post some high res pictures when we get some, but for now you can just follow the link to my blog post.  This whole thing of people having babies that were not alive when I was born is still new to me; I guess I’ll get used to it.

On September 13th Jess & I went to Morgantown to attend Ricky’s White Coat Ceremony.  Which marks the begging of his full time clinical experience.  This means that we are ever closer to free dental care.  Oh, and we are proud of him too!

Since Jess and I have not been out of town since last August, we decided to make a short weekend trip out of the event.  So when we were finished in Morgantown, I burned some hotel points and we went to Pittsburgh for the night; Laura was nice enough to stay with Petey and Phoebe.  While in Pittsburgh, Jess and I did one of our favorite things and went to IKEA. We picked up some odds and ends and tried to buy me a new desk, but I would need a van to get it home.  So the great desk search continues.

While we were there I fell in love with a Dr. Evil chair and under no circumstances could I talk my wife into buying it.  No matter how many times I said “image how cool Phoebe and I will look in the chair” it was to no avail.  Alas all I have is a picture.

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That picture was taken with my new Cannon Power Shot A590IS camera.  I did some side work and decided to use some of the proceeds to buy a new digital camera.  Ours was very much in need of replacement.  Just take a look at some of the shots.

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Look at the detail on Petey

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The video mode on it is great too.

As for me, I have been driving and working night and day.  I am buried by projects right now.  Hopefully I will get a reprieve soon, but I am not going to hold my breath.  You see my summer was already “fully booked”, then I had 7 additional weeks of travel thrown on me.  To be able to accommodate all this I have just been basically able to “maintain” my own customer base.  I have not been able to work in my normal proactive style for several weeks now and I feel like I have been thrown under a bus.

You see, if I had my Dr. Evil chair I would be giving the orders.

Well that’s about all the news from the Stapleton Lair.  This (in addition to my interim posts) should bring everyone up to date.

That’s the news and I am outta here!

Welcoming a New Little One to the World

Jayse Casto was born this evening at 6:45 PM mother and son are doing fine no word on the dad yet. (Little Humor)

Congratulations Jeremy & Carrie!

You have indeed been blessed this day.

UPDATED 09-15-08:  Here’s the little guy.  He is out of the hospital now and Carrie is currently being treated to regulate her blood pressure.  But all in all Mom, Dad, & Little Jayse are doing pretty well.  

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