{"id":568,"date":"2009-10-11T22:02:24","date_gmt":"2009-10-12T02:02:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.jakestapleton.com\/wordpress\/?p=568"},"modified":"2013-03-23T15:42:02","modified_gmt":"2013-03-23T20:42:02","slug":"surgeries-vacation-and-imaginary-banks","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jakestapleton.com\/stapletonfamily\/2009\/10\/11\/surgeries-vacation-and-imaginary-banks\/","title":{"rendered":"Surgeries, Vacation, and Imaginary Banks"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Greetings and Salutations Faithful Stapleton Blog Readers<\/p>\n<p>Here we go with another marathon update . . . .(in chronological order of course)<\/p>\n<p>The week after my last lengthy update on June 5th, Petey had surgery to have a tumor removed.\u00c2\u00a0 He did pretty well with the surgery and the tumor was benign, so Jess &amp; I were very thankful.\u00c2\u00a0 We both felt like a couple of heels over the entire matter.\u00c2\u00a0 The tumor was exterior and looked like a skin tag for lack of a better term.\u00c2\u00a0 It did not look like a mole or anything dangerous so we let it go for a while until we noticed it growing and we took him in.\u00c2\u00a0 Our outstanding vet <a href=\"http:\/\/www.tristateanimalclinic.com\/\">Dr. Chevalier <\/a>did the surgery and took care of our boy with her usual professional and personal skill.\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0 The rest of June went pretty much normally or at least what has qualified for normal lately.\u00c2\u00a0 I continued traveling way more than I would have liked and Jess continued making progress on getting her teaching certificate and looking for a job.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>In July my hectic travel schedule continued, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.jakestapleton.com\/wordpress\/2009\/07\/24\/our-10th-anniversary\/\">Jess &amp; I celebrated our 10th Anniversary<\/a>, and Ricky &amp; Megan got married.\u00c2\u00a0 (So now my mother-in-law has another set of ovaries to concentrate on) The wedding was very nice and we all had a great time.<\/p>\n<p>In August my travel continued most of the month, but Jess &amp; I actually took a vacation.\u00c2\u00a0 We slipped down to Myrtle Beach for a week and had a great time.\u00c2\u00a0 (Plus the room at the new Hampton Inn in Myrtle Beach was free, courtesy of my hotel points.\u00c2\u00a0 These things make my cheap heart pitter patter).\u00c2\u00a0 While at the beach we did our usual things and I got to indulge myself a little. \u00c2\u00a0 Jess had a few headaches while we were there so I took a boy day and went to Charleston, SC to see the <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/USS_Yorktown_%28CV-10%29\">USS Yorktown<\/a>.\u00c2\u00a0 It was a great day.\u00c2\u00a0 I really enjoyed seeing the ship and going through the history that fills its hull.\u00c2\u00a0 I did not take too many pictures while I was there.\u00c2\u00a0 It was kind of odd but knowing the story of the ship (before I read all the signs on board), I felt a sense of reverence while walking through the ship for all those who has served and given their life on the ship.\u00c2\u00a0 As a result, I felt more like taking it all in as opposed to snapping pictures.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_569\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-569\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.jakestapleton.com\/stapletonfamily\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/10\/IMG_0296.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-569\" title=\"USS Yorktown\" alt=\"USS Yorktown\" src=\"http:\/\/www.jakestapleton.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/10\/IMG_0296-300x225.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/jakestapleton.com\/stapletonfamily\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/10\/IMG_0296-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/jakestapleton.com\/stapletonfamily\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/10\/IMG_0296.jpg 600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-569\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">USS Yorktown<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>The Yorktown is anchored in Charleston harbor, so I got to try something neat.\u00c2\u00a0 I got to stitch together a panoramic shot of the Cooper River bridge you can see the shot <a href=\"http:\/\/www.jakestapleton.com\/wordpress\/2009\/08\/13\/panoramic-of-the-coopers-river-bridge-in-charleston-sc\/\">here<\/a>.\u00c2\u00a0 While at the beach I also went para-sailing again and had my usual great time.\u00c2\u00a0 (Even got some good storm shots from the boat.)\u00c2\u00a0 Jess and I also had a great time at the House of Blues murder mystery night. I was one of the 4 people who figured out why and who committed the murder.\u00c2\u00a0 Posted below are a few shots from the vacation.\u00c2\u00a0 I just did not take too many pictures this time around.<\/p>\n<div id='gallery-1' class='gallery galleryid-568 gallery-columns-3 gallery-size-thumbnail'><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/jakestapleton.com\/stapletonfamily\/2009\/10\/11\/surgeries-vacation-and-imaginary-banks\/img_0359\/'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/jakestapleton.com\/stapletonfamily\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/10\/IMG_0359-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"\" sizes=\"auto, 100vw\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/div><\/figure><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/jakestapleton.com\/stapletonfamily\/2009\/10\/11\/surgeries-vacation-and-imaginary-banks\/img_0347\/'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/jakestapleton.com\/stapletonfamily\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/10\/IMG_0347-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"\" sizes=\"auto, 100vw\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/div><\/figure><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/jakestapleton.com\/stapletonfamily\/2009\/10\/11\/surgeries-vacation-and-imaginary-banks\/img_0323\/'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/jakestapleton.com\/stapletonfamily\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/10\/IMG_0323-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"\" sizes=\"auto, 100vw\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/div><\/figure><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/jakestapleton.com\/stapletonfamily\/2009\/10\/11\/surgeries-vacation-and-imaginary-banks\/img_0311-2\/'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/jakestapleton.com\/stapletonfamily\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/10\/IMG_0311-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"\" sizes=\"auto, 100vw\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/div><\/figure><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/jakestapleton.com\/stapletonfamily\/2009\/10\/11\/surgeries-vacation-and-imaginary-banks\/img_0320\/'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/jakestapleton.com\/stapletonfamily\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/10\/IMG_0320-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"\" sizes=\"auto, 100vw\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/div><\/figure><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/jakestapleton.com\/stapletonfamily\/2009\/10\/11\/surgeries-vacation-and-imaginary-banks\/img_0341\/'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/jakestapleton.com\/stapletonfamily\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/10\/IMG_0341-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"\" sizes=\"auto, 100vw\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/div><\/figure><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/jakestapleton.com\/stapletonfamily\/2009\/10\/11\/surgeries-vacation-and-imaginary-banks\/img_0314\/'><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/jakestapleton.com\/stapletonfamily\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/10\/IMG_0314-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"\" sizes=\"auto, 100vw\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/div><\/figure>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\n<p>Immediately after getting home from vacation I had to leave for Indianapolis to attend my company&#8217;s <a href=\"http:\/\/conference.csiweb.com\/\">annual conference<\/a>.\u00c2\u00a0 During this time, Jess was getting her final notice on the jobs she bid for and she landed a full-time teaching position at Huntington High School.\u00c2\u00a0 Like any good husband <a href=\"http:\/\/www.jakestapleton.com\/wordpress\/2009\/08\/21\/jesss-first-day-of-school-2\/\">I took a picture of her first day of school<\/a>, but she still refused to go to the bus stop for me.<\/p>\n<p>That brings us to September.\u00c2\u00a0 I, of course, traveled and Jess settled into her teaching job.\u00c2\u00a0 She is doing really well and loves her kids, I am so happy that she found a job that uses her gift.\u00c2\u00a0 She really was put on this earth to help those who cannot help themselves.\u00c2\u00a0 The only thing out of the ordinary that I did in September was attend banking school in Columbus.\u00c2\u00a0 This was a grueling (Not in a 6 o&#8217;clock news anchor kind of grueling I really mean it!) 6 day course from 8am to 8pm everyday with only breaks to eat and service nature.\u00c2\u00a0 A large portion of the school was focused on a banking simulation.\u00c2\u00a0 This is where you have an imaginary bank and market forces that you operate in a computer model for 6 consecutive quarters.\u00c2\u00a0 The group elected me CEO of the bank and with their help, we grew the bank over 90 million in assets and never got in trouble with the regulators.\u00c2\u00a0 It was really a great week and at the end I did receive a <a href=\"http:\/\/twitpic.com\/igjbb\">diploma<\/a> and my <a href=\"http:\/\/jakestapleton.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/10\/Stapleton_Press_Release.pdf\">very first press release<\/a>.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_574\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-574\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-574\" title=\"OBL Banking School\" alt=\"OBL Banking School\" src=\"http:\/\/www.jakestapleton.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/10\/Stapleton-300x225.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/jakestapleton.com\/stapletonfamily\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/10\/Stapleton-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/jakestapleton.com\/stapletonfamily\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/10\/Stapleton.jpg 600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-574\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">OBL Banking School<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>The rest of September was spent working and getting the church website ready for the <a href=\"http:\/\/pearidgebaptist.com\/wordpress\/?page_id=1265\">New Testament Challenge<\/a>.\u00c2\u00a0 During the course of getting the site ready, I decided to redesign it as well; I am really pleased with the <a href=\"http:\/\/pearidgebaptist.com\/wordpress\/\">results<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>On the night of September 30th, I was staying Clarksburg and received a message from Laura about 5:30 that said Mom was being admitted to the hospital for an MRI.\u00c2\u00a0 So I called back and Laura indicated that Mom had been in abdominal discomfort for a couple of days and she had finally decided to go to her family doctor.\u00c2\u00a0 (See that stubborn gene I come by naturally) At about 9:30 that night I get a call that they are taking Mom into emergency surgery to do some repairs.\u00c2\u00a0 (I guess when you get to 76 things start to wear out.\u00c2\u00a0 Man nothing lasts any amount of time anymore.)\u00c2\u00a0 So I packed up and headed back home to be with Laura &amp; Mom.\u00c2\u00a0 The surgery ended about 12:15 on October 1st (Happy Birthday Laura) Mom came through it with flying colors and was doing very well.\u00c2\u00a0 Before Laura and I left to go home, we went back to see Mom in recovery and learned very quickly that you can indeed bark orders at your children with a tube down your throat on a ventilator.<\/p>\n<p>Mom continued to remain in the hospital recovering until October 9th when she got to come home.\u00c2\u00a0 She is doing pretty well and should be back in fighting trim at about the time she has to go back in to have all her innards put back together again around January.\u00c2\u00a0 Overall we are really happy with her care and recovery.\u00c2\u00a0 It has taken the wind out of her, but she is coming back strong.\u00c2\u00a0 On most days, she could wear out a lot of people 15 to 20 years younger than herself.\u00c2\u00a0 In fact when she was in the hospital they accused her of being 60!\u00c2\u00a0 That, of course, made her day!<\/p>\n<p>I will never forget what Mom told me one day about getting old &#8220;The day that I sit down and stop doing things (moving this, lifting that), I will just cease up and die&#8221;.\u00c2\u00a0 Having always taken that statement to heart, I intend to remain active as long as my bones and muscles will move me.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m not talking about running 10 miles everyday.\u00c2\u00a0 I&#8217;m talking about doing as much for yourself as you possibly can without asking for any help.\u00c2\u00a0 How many people do you know that just retire, quit being active, and die within a couple of years of retirement?\u00c2\u00a0 I have no intention of being that person.<\/p>\n<p>So just to sum up: I travel way too much, Ricky &amp; Megan got married, Jess &amp; I took a vacation, Jess is now an official school teacher, I can indeed run an imaginary bank, Mom is alive, well, and recovering, and the Stapleton family is grateful for all the blessings we have received.<\/p>\n<p>Do you feel cheated that you read everything above?\u00c2\u00a0 I hope not.\u00c2\u00a0 A blog post is about the journey not the destination.<\/p>\n<p>Until next time, stay warm, stay safe, and stay cool (although that one can be subjective).<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s the news and I am outta here!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Greetings and Salutations Faithful Stapleton Blog Readers Here we go with another marathon update . . . .(in chronological order of course) The week after my last lengthy update on June 5th, Petey had surgery to have a tumor removed.\u00c2\u00a0 He did pretty well with the surgery and the tumor was benign, so Jess &amp; &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/jakestapleton.com\/stapletonfamily\/2009\/10\/11\/surgeries-vacation-and-imaginary-banks\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Surgeries, Vacation, and Imaginary 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